Friday 24 May 2013

5 Ways To Deal With A Womanizing Boyfriend

Do you think that your boyfriend is crossing the line of healthy flirting with other women? Just because he was popular with women before he met you, does not mean that he has the right to carry the same habits once he is in a relationship with you.photoHere are some effective ways to deal with the womanizing behavior of your boyfriend.

1. Identify specific instances of his womanizing behavior

You will never be able to prove your point unless you confront your boyfriend with proof about specific instances of his womanizing ways. The best way to confront him is to keep a note of all the times you noticed his womanizing ways. When you confront him, list out these specific examples so that you have enough substance to accuse him of being a womanizer.

2. Give him a warning when you confront him

There is no point in confronting your boyfriend if you don’t give him a stern warning for his womanizing ways. Let it be very clear to him that you are well aware of his behavior and you will not tolerate with any of it. You can give him an ultimatum and warn him that you will consider breaking off the relationship if he does not stop being a womanizer.

3. Flirt with someone to give him a taste of his own medicine

If talking to your boyfriend calmly and having a conversation with him does not work, try to make him realize how bad you feel by flirting with someone in front of him. Set up a situation where you can flirt with a guy when your boyfriend is with you. When he confronts you about your behavior, just tell him that this is exactly how you feel when he flirts with other women. Being at the receiving end of the pain and hurt may open his eyes and make him stop being a womanizer.

4. Walk away and pretend to break up if he breaks his promise once

If you find that your boyfriend is still showing signs of being a womanizer even after you served him a warning, pretend that you are thinking of breaking up with him. Do this only if he is actually remorseful of his behavior and pleads for another chance. Use this trump card very carefully because it can create two situations. Either he will do everything he can to stop being a womanizer and prove his love for you, or he will assume that you have seriously broken up with him and never look back.

5. Give him one last chance and be ready to call off the relationship

The is the time when you have no other choice but to make a life changing decision, whether you want to break up with your boyfriend if he does not stop his flirty behavior. If you decide that you have had enough, give him one final chance to mend his ways. Be ready to call it quits in your relationship if the results do not work in your favor, because there is no looking back after you give him a last chance. If you take him back even after your ultimatum, he will take you for granted and continue being a womanizer

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Playground made from trash gets children back in the swing

An artist has turned thousands of plastic water bottles into an amazing amusement park for children in Uganda. Check out his creations, including a helicopter made of bottle tops and climbing frames crafted from old tires.
Ugandan eco-artist Ruganzu Bruno built an amusement park for children living in one of Kampala's slums. 


  • Ugandan Ruganzu Bruno raises environmental awareness through his art
  • He uses waste bottles and other recycled materials to create functional pieces of art
  • He won the City 2.0 Award last year for his idea to build a playground from trash
  • He has also developed a loan scheme that helps eco artists
(CNN) -- No sooner had Ruganzu Bruno and his troupe of fellow eco-artists arrived at Kampala's Kawempe area than their presence stirred up questions within the local community.
"What are you doing?" the startled residents asked. "Why are you using all this plastic?" they continued, baffled by the piles of waste bottles that were gradually filling a dusty compound yard in the northwestern suburb of the Ugandan capital.
What the group of artists was doing was creating "The Hand That Speaks," an enormous structure made of recycled materials to raise awareness about environmental degradation.
"We were trying to bring out the message that the hand is the one which is throwing this trash into the environment and at the same time it could be used to collect [them] and save the environment," says Bruno.
"The Hand That Speaks."
ECO ART/RUGANZU BRUNO
And once the nine artists started assembling their futuristic creation, using more than 20,000 bottles collected in the slums of Kampala, the local crowds also decided to lend a helping hand.
"At first, the community were confused but then they really loved it," says Bruno. "They were always getting us bottles."
Eco Art
That was about four years ago, when Bruno was still a student at the Kyambogo University fine art school. During that time, the talented painter and sculptor discovered that he wasn't interested in just crafting artworks that would only satisfy his creative needs.
I kind of felt a change within myself to think about others.
Ruganzu Bruno, artist
Instead, he wanted his art to have a positive impact on his community.
"When we are trying to achieve things in life we are self-centered, and as artists we tend to make work for ourselves," explains Bruno, 30.
"I kind of felt a change within myself to think about others," he adds. "From then on I could not only paint -- I decided to work on work that was beneficial to my community."
One of Ruganzu Bruno's paintings.
ECO ART/RUGANZU BRUNO
Driven by a desire to influence his surroundings, Bruno then became involved in eco-art projects, devising innovative ways to deal with Kampala's acute waste management problem.
In 2010 he founded Eco Art Uganda, a collective of artists promoting environmental awareness by transforming anything from discarded bottles and cast-aside metal to broken TVs and computers into contemporary and functional pieces of art.
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"I was looking for materials that were not expensive and easily available," says the soft-spoken artist, who hails from southwest Uganda.
"I really found that this trash and rubbish could actually become a really positive way of communicating to people," adds Bruno, who's won several accolades for his work, including the Ugandan Young Achievers award 2011.
Ruganzu Bruno at the TEDx summit in Doha.
ECO ART/RUGANZU BRUNO
Amusement park
In April last year, Bruno also won the $10,000 City 2.0 Award at the TEDx summit in Doha, Qatar, for his idea to create an amusement playground for children living in Kampala's congested slums.
I think a man will always be remembered by his work.
Ruganzu Bruno, artist
Using an array of recycled materials, Bruno went on to transform a school yard in Kampala's Kireka community into a fun and safe place where children can play and learn.
The eco-park, which was completed last September, is dotted with whimsical structures attracting dozens of children each day -- from a colorful helicopter and life-size board games made of bottles to recycled swings and climbing frames crafted from old tires.
Bruno says the entire community, which lacked a recreation facility, embraced the project wholeheartedly.
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"I talked to the head of the school, and together with the parents and the students, they are the ones who collected the bottles," says Bruno, who is also a lecturer in the department of Art & Design at Kyambogo University.
"So we built the playground together as a team and they know how to repair it -- this is very important in terms of sustainability."
The opening of the playground in Kireka.
ECO ART/RUGANZU BRUNO
But more importantly, Bruno, who was orphaned at a young age, says the project has had a positive impact on the children.
"The attention of children in class has improved; the number of children who are dropping out [is falling] because now they have something to keep them busy there, " he adds. "There is a really good progress and it has also helped them to express themselves in class."
Legacy
Bruno says his goal is to recreate "as many as 100" similar amusement parks in other parts of Uganda.
He is also using the prize money to grow an eco-artist loan scheme he's developed, aimed at supporting the business endeavors of creative women in Kireka.
It's all part of his continuous efforts to be an artist whose work will serve his community's needs.
"I think a man will always be remembered by his work, "says Bruno. "I'm an advocate now of the environment; I'm an advocate for play for children; I'm an artist ...who wants his work to have an effect on the people.

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