Tuesday 2 July 2013

[Advice Needed] I Found Out That He Has A Child A Week To Our Engagement Ceremony, What Should I Do?


Dear Tee,
I am really confused here. Its a week to our engagement ceremony. I found out two days ago that he has a child. He has always told me that the child is his elder sister’s kid. The elder sister actually stays in UK. I don’t know how I accepted the tale from him, cos the child looks very much like him. I was in their house two days ago when a distant relative of his came around. She asked after his son in my presence and that was how I knew. He even denied it again, until I was about to walk out of his life before he confessed to me. It is really disheartening that he lied these years to me, not because he has a child, but because he won’t let me know about it. I am confused here, I can’t forgive him, but I do love him! What is going to happen to our coming engagement?
Habibat.

Dear Habibat,
Congratulation on your coming engagement ceremony. Your fiance should have opened up to you about his child, but not to worry, you should forgive him. His reasons for hiding it from you might be because of what your reactions might be. Since you said you are fine with the child, you should forgive him then and proceed with the engagement, except if you can’t stand the fact that he has a baby. Let go and forgive, it is not easy to do that….I understand. But forgiveness is possible….
Hope this helps. Have a blessed celebration.
Tee.

7 Reasons Why Ladies Are Not Easy To Satisfy


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Guys complain that it’s not easy to satisfy ladies. But why is that the case? See the answer below…

Here Are The 7 Complicated Facts About Ladies:
1. They want a guy who has many and saves money.
2. They don’t save, but go out and buy expensive clothes.
3. They buy expensive clothes, but don’t have anything to wear.
4. They say they don’t have what to wear, but always dress sexy.
5. They dressed beautifully, but are never satisfied with their looks.
6. They’re never satisfied, but still expect their man to compliment them.
7. When they meet a man who compliments them, they don’t believe him.
So, guys now you know why lady’s are not ‘very’ easy to satisfy. Just keep trying…lol!

How To Get Up And Move On When Your Guy Doesn’t Want To Commit

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Guess what a woman often does if a man is not quite up to her standards? She actually thinks she can turn him into that type of man. Many women feel they can change a man over time. Can you believe in this day and age, there are women who still think this is possible?
Scores of women think they’ve found The One. He is Mr. Right. He has it going on. So here we can ask them, “Why are you waiting to talk to me? If you have met ‘The One,’ then you don’t need advice from me.” Then they shall start telling their stories. I listen, just hoping they’re not going to say those words I truly hate to hear women say: “But I love him. I really want to make this work.” Or, “I think he can change. He just needs someone like me in his life.” Right. Just like you need another hole in your head”.
  • Not all men are relationship material. Many of them are not quite ready to settle down. They’re perfectly content being bachelors. But you are ready to settle down in a relationship. However, the men you meet, well, you either settle, or you throw your hands up and give up. And during that phase of getting to know one another, there are some things that are just not adding up. I’m going to do you a favor and break it down so that you will be able to identify a man who isn’t worth your time. If a man tells you that he isn’t interested in being in a relationship, then guess what? That means not with you, either. I don’t care how many times he has taken you out on a date, sexed you really well, and given you late night conversation. True, his actions are saying something totally different, but, if he says he is not interested in a relationship, then he is not interested. Let him go. Don’t get your hopes up thinking you can change his mind. Because the truth of the matter is, everything he is doing with you, and all the time he may be spending with you, he’s doing the same with other women. They are getting equal amounts of his time. Let him go and move on. It will save you untold time and aggravation trying to figure out why the two of you are not a couple.
  • If a man tells you that he has a girlfriend, or that the woman in his life is just a friend, but he is always looking for more female friends, run, run, run! He is not faithful. That is a tell-tale neon sign that he won’t be faithful to you, either. Some women actually think it’s cute to be dating a man with a girlfriend, or many lady friends, and they think they are getting one over on the unsuspecting girlfriend. Trust me, there is nothing cute about it. There is a thing known as karma. You may not feel its effects immediately, but trust me, honey, karma will come back and bite you in the b*tt. Leave that man and drama alone.
  • If a man tells you that he just came out of a relationship, ladies, then you’d better believe he isn’t ready to jump into another one. Let him have his time to grieve, mourn, or celebrate his way out of his situation. Trying to get someone to commit into another relationship when they just came out of one is a disaster waiting to happen. But some women will try to convince that man that they are not like the ex-girlfriend who did him wrong. She will not nag him like his ex, and unlike his last girlfriend, she won’t require a lot of time and attention. Lies, pure lies, I tell you. Think about the amount of time you needed to get over your last serious ex. If you don’t allow him the time to heal and let go of his ex, she will show up in your relationship with him. Trust me.
  • If a man only calls you after midnight to come over to his house, well, this is an easy one. I shouldn’t have to go any further and explain. But just in case you don’t understand, Ms. Honey, it’s a booty call. That’s right. He does not see you as a woman he would like to be in a relationship with. He only sees you as a s*x partner. If that’s what you are looking for, then knock yourself out. If you are looking for a good man who respects you, move on. This one only thinks of you as a s*xual being.
  • If a man isn’t willing to define the relationship he has with you, then you’re not in a relationship. If every time you bring up the subject, his response is, “You’re cool,” “We’re just hanging out,” or “Why do we have to define this?” this man is clearly not the one for you. He cannot be honest or open enough to express how he feels for you. Why would you sit around waiting on a little boy? Only a small child cannot clearly articulate their feelings. The man for you will not hesitate or clam up when it’s time to share his feelings and emotions. He will certainly be able to express if he is into you, and that you are his one and only lady.
  • If you’ve been seeing a man for over six months and you’ve never been to his home, haven’t met any of his friends or family members, and you’re still not sure where he works, this is a clear indication that you don’t have a relationship. You know nothing about this man. Why is he being so discreet? He’s obviously hiding something. Let him go and move on.
  • Why would you want to be with a man who’s not willing to share his personal life with you? It’s not worth it to play detective and explore his background. (And I know some of you will, because you like snooping and being nosy.) If he is not forthright with basic information, just let him and his secrets go. Some things you’re better off not knowing.

5 Things Men Can Do To Túrn Women On

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Let her know the things you like about her, what túrns you on about her– is in fact a huge túrn on for her.
If you frequent the bar scene or have tried online dating recently, you’ve probably been barraged by men who think that lewd séxual remarks or lame pick up lines are what it takes to get them a date— or into your pants.
And then, there’s the general insensitivity. Men can be thoughtless when it comes to dating and relationships. It’s not that they intend to be rude… they just don’t think things through. But that doesn’t mean women should necessarily push men away. Women play a part too. Sometimes, women can tend to focus on the negative, making matters worse.
Dr. Jane Greer, GalTime’s own Relationship Expert, and creator of “Shrink Wrap” (a national commentary on what we can learn from celebrity relationships), has heard it all… “He talked too much, he interrupted, he came late, he told you that you were going out to dinner and then he changed his mind… this list could go on infinitely because the knee-jerk response is to talk about what túrned you off.”
Dr. Greer points out that we can all benefit from a change in attitude. “I think the key for men and women both is to shift from the ‘túrn off’ to the ‘túrn on.’ Then your day after conversation can be testimony to the positives. You can say, ‘Here’s what I liked…’ and that can give you something to build on.”
There are plenty of things men can do to túrn women on. She offers these tips:
1. Be reliable and follow through. If you say you are going to call, call. Otherwise, don’t say it. If you make a date for 7:00 get there at 7:00, or be thoughtful and communicate in some form that you’re running late. This is how you convey respect.
2. Show interest by asking questions. Take the time to inquire about the important aspects of her life—like friends, work, family and hobbies. This is the way you get to find out the things you have in common– and at the same time show her she’s important to get to know about.
3. Compliment her. Let her know the things you like about her, what túrns you on about her– is in fact a huge túrn on for her. If you like her hair, outfit or something she says… tell her!
4. Be considerate. Ask her about the things she likes to do, and factoring in her preferences and needs into the plans you make for your date. If you’re at a restaurant ask her what food she likes before you order to see if you can share anything.
5. Flírt with her! Be playful, charming, and séxy, smile a lot and laugh with her. All of these things will spark a connection that will be a great túrn on.

PHOTO: See Woman With Feet Facing Backwards


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Wang Fang, 32, of Chongqing city in China, was born with her feet facing the wrong way. She has learned to live with her condition without problems and recently refused a disability pension by being classified as disabled. “I can run faster than most of my friends and have a regular job as a waitress in the family restaurant. There is no reason to class me as disabled.”
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2013 BET Awards: Ice Prince wins ‘Best African Act’ Award + Full List Of Awards



Nigerian rapper, Ice Prince knocked out 2face Idibia, Toya Delazy from South Africa, Donald from South Africa,  R2Bees from Ghana and Radio and Weasel from Uganda to win the 2013 Best African Act at the BET Awards held Sunday evening, June 30 at the Nokia Theatre in Los Angeles.

Ice Prince had been nominated to this category in 2012 but lost it to Wizkid and Sarkodie.

Tuface as you know is no stranger to grabbing international awards. In 2011, he shared this same award with the Koko master D’banj.

Other winners are
Best Female R&B/Pop Artist: Rihanna

Best Male R&B/Pop Artist: Chris Brown

Best Group: Macklemore and Ryan Lewis

Best Collaboration: A$AP Rocky (featuring Drake, 2 Chainz and Kendrick Lamar) – F***in’ Problems

Best Male Hip Hop Artist: Kendrick Lamar

Best Female Hip Hop Artist: Nicki Minaj

Video Of The Year: Drake – Started From the Bottom

Video Director of the Year: Benny Boom

Best New Artist: Kendrick Lamar

Best Gospel Artist: Mary Mary

Best Actress: Kerry Washington

Best Actor: Jamie Foxx

YoungStars Award: Gabrielle Douglas

Best Movie: Think Like a Man

Subway Sportswoman of the Year: Gabrielle Douglas

Subway Sportsman of the Year: LeBron James

Coca-Cola Viewers’ Choice Award: Drake – Started From the Bottom

Centric Award: Tamar Braxton – Love and War

Best International Act: Africa  – Ice Prince (Nigeria)

Humanitarian Award: Dwyane Wade

Lifetime Achievement Award: Charlie Wilson

FANdemonium Award: Chris Brown

Iyanya's Friends Threaten to Release Yvonne Nelson's NUDE Photos If She Doesn't Keep Shut!


When love goes sour it really goes sour.... i really hate it when it gets dirty like is the case now between Ghanaian Actress Yvonne Nelson and Nigerian Crooner Iyanya.

Ok fine,they dated and it didn't work out and ways parted...that was the end of it until a few weeks back when she granted an interview running him down and calling him serial lover amongst other names and cited that the reason for their breakup was because of his philandering ways.

I guess Iyanya didn't want to be fingered as a man who kisses and tells,so instead of granting an interview running the Actress down,he decided to sing....he went on Tim Westwoods show and sang away his embarrassment.

He said concerning the Actress who's name he mentioned and basically referred to as a fling

''All I want is your waist, no emotions, no tears, no letters, no love, no nothing. All I want is your waist, she ain't even know it. She brought emotions...'

What does Yvonne do?her Voltrons(Yvonne Nelson voltrons-YNV's) send pictures of her tattooed initials on his wrist online to show she wasn't a one night stand and the other camp says the tattoo was only on for as long as it took to discover she was a 'hopper'

The tattoo stayed on for only one month and the initials have been rubbed off and the wrist is long recovered....a temporary tattoo it was and then even permanent ones can still be taken off.

Iyanya's voltrons have also risen up to the challenge and disclosed that that iyanya and Yvonne Nelson had a relationship until her 'kurukere' moves in Nigeria was unearthed ''she was dating iyanya and some other men whilst also being pimped by a married friend and when she(Yvonne) was confronted by Iyanya she denied all the allegations until the bubble burst.

Iyanya voltrons are so upset with the way the Ghanaian actress has been going on as if she comes to equity with clean hands and making Iyanya look bad to his fans and lovers of good music ''yes they dated but she was also dating prominent Nigerians and would come to Nigeria in the guise of shooting movies,drop off her things in iyanyan's house and then go off to her lovers houses forgetting that she is an Actress and these excited men spread the word once they have had their fill and.....click...click....click.........cash for hand!


''She used to serve Iyanya leftovers after kurukere-ing!''

I hear whispers that Iyanya voltrons (Iyanya voltrons-Iyanyan voltron's)have naked pictures of Yvonne nelson which she took in the heat of the moment with some prominent Nigerians and some of them have these photos on their phones and it has been passed around.
The Iyanya voltrons threaten to release these pictures if Yvonne Nelsons voltrons do not let this matter rest and move on with their lives.

Yvonne Nelson threw the first punch and she has been replied...I am just using this medium to ask both ex lovers to respect the sex they had together and let the dogs sleep..if however they ignore and decide to continue with the sex spilling tales,i have space on this blog and i will help them.

If i was her,i wouldn't call anybody's bluff concerning naked pictures...you never know oh!

*waiting for YNV's to come and comment here*

5 Unilag Students In Fatal Car Crash, 3 Killed (Accident Pictures From Ikeja, Lagos)

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July 2nd, 2013 -5 Unilag Students In Fatal Car Crash, 3 Dead In Ikeja, Lagos (Accident Pictures)
While coming from the birthday party of one of their colleagues mother, 5 students of the University of Lagos (UNILAG) got involved in a fatal car accident along Ikeja Int’l airport road in Lagos on Monday.
According to eyewitnesses report, the car crash killed 3 out of the 5 unilag students instantly while 2 of them are in critical condition at the hospital.
We learnt one of the victim of this fatal car crash invited few of her friends to the birthday party of her boyfriend’s mother.
The students left Emerald hostel in the early hours of July 1st, 2013 for the journey of no return.
The lady that invited her friends got a surprise proposal from her boyfriend, the son of the birthday celebrant.
The lady pictured on the left above identified as Adelowotan Oluwafunmilayo, a 200Level Quantity surveying student was the first victim of the accident.
She died as a result of head injury after she was ejected from the car they’re driving.
Her best friend too who accompanied her to the event also died when she got crushed.
Some students on campus are insinuating that the mother of the boy who invited them allegedly used them for ritual.
One of the concerned students who opted out of the invitation said how come the boy didn’t propose to the lady in a different way… why not on his birthday or the girl’s birthday..
Why did he propose to her on his mother’s birthday.
The concerned students claim the ring on the left finger of the Funmilayo is a ring of death that caused the fatal collision.
This is tragic.
Look below for the pictures from the accident scene.
Viewers discretion is strongly advised
  May their souls rest in perfect peace.